Are You Making These 6 Mistakes That Prevent You From Getting What You Want?

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“What is stopping you from achieving the results you desire?”

This is the fundamental question that Jack Canfield asked during one of his recent teleseminar training.

Jack is truly passionate about helping his clients get breakthrough results, so they can live the life they want.

This is why he reveals the top 6 stoppers that keep most people from moving to the next level. This is based on Jack’s extensive experience as a success coach, and from his own journey of achieving huge success by being a best-selling author.

Identify these 6 stoppers in your own life, and you can create breakthrough results:

1. Lack of clarity of your vision, purpose and goals

The first reason that’s stopping you from living large is you aren’t clear on what you want. When you don’t know this, you can’t fulfill your soul’s purpose. Your life will flow along aimless.

To solve this problem, get really in touch with what life means to you. It’s not always about what you have or your possessions. It’s about emotions or how you feel.

If you are having difficulty finding your life purpose, it may be because you don’t give to yourself. It’s critical to give to yourself first so you have the mental and emotional space to truly know yourself.

2. There’s a subconscious belief that’s stopping you

The common limiting belief that people share is “I don’t feel I’m worth it” or “I’m not good enough”.

To overcome this belief, you must give yourself time. You are 100% responsible over your life. You’re the one who can uncreate and create it the way you want.

What this means is that you can’t become a victim of your beliefs. Jack shares a simple strategy for taking complete control over your life. Simply think about a difficult situation in your life and ask:

  • How are you creating it, continuing it, or allowing it in your life?
  • What is the payoff you get for keeping it?
  • What is the cost of keeping it?
  • Instead of this situation, what would you rather have?
  • How could you create what you want?
  • By when will you actually do it?

By asking these questions, you are forcing your brain to find the answers and focus on the positive aspect of your situation.

Of course, they’re not called subconscious beliefs for nothing. You are mostly unaware of how you are sabotaging your efforts because of programming that runs deep down inside. Crack Your Egg calls this your eggshell, and it sabotages you in 6 specific ways.

3. Most people don’t have a breakthrough goal or top priority goal

There is an adage that says don’t spread yourself too thin. The more scattered you are, the less power each thing you’re working on has. When you’re multitasking, you’re not getting the full value of each thing that you are doing.

To solve this problem, you should focus on one main goal. Jack calls this the BHAG: Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal, or the ONE breakthrough goal that will quantum leap you to the next level.

How do you identify this one goal? Ask yourself these questions:

  • What is the one thing I can do this week that would make all other things easier or unnecessary?
  • What would be a goal that would quantum leap my goals?

4. People don’t have a clear and achievable plan

Even when you have identified your priority goal, you must be able to break it down into small steps. If you don’t figure out the small steps, the big goal will seem like an unachievable goal.

To figure out your small steps, think backwards:

  • What do I have to do one year from now?
  • What do I have to do 3 months from now?

Keep asking until you know what you have to do tomorrow.

You can also ask what do you want, how much do you want, and when do you want it?

5. Most people have not developed a transformational mindset

There is a problem knows as mindless work. This happens when you go through your life without ever stopping to ask yourself where you really want to go. As a result, you don’t know how to behave in front of a challenge. This means you will fail to reach your goals when an obstacle comes up.

To solve this problem, you can use affirmations and visualizations until your belief aligns with what you want. These are the tools that you use to change from a fixed mindset to a flexible mindset. A flexible mindset means that you aren’t afraid of living on the edge.

Be comfortable living on the edge, because success is on the edge.

6. Most people lack an environment that supports your goals

This stopper can be a silent killer because you are not immediately aware of its existence. When you know your priority goal and have the detailed plan and mindset to carry out action, you can still get sidetracked by people who don’t support you.

In order to prevent this, create and put yourself in an environment that supports you. Ask yourself are the people in your current environment positive, nurturing, encouraging? If they aren’t, then you need to make new friends.

Some ways to create a nurturing environment is to make friends with people who are one level above you. Get yourself in their sphere of influence by joining a club. Find a circle of people where you are the least smartest, the least richest, and the least capable. This way, you will have a lot to learn from people who are more achieved than you.

What is your Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal?

The focus of Jack’s teleseminar training was on the 3rd and 4th points. Have you identified your top goal, and do you know the exact detailed steps to achieve it? If you don’t know yet, you can ask this array of questions:

  • What do you really want from life?
  • How can you align your biggest joys and passions with your work?
  • What’s really holding you back from moving forward?
  • And how can you eliminate those obstacles and live your highest vision?
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